Emotions...

How easy it really is to let someone convince you to change your perspective about a particular situation... especially when you are very hurt about a situation?...
Why do people react to some situations in such a way, that they end up feeling deeply hurt themselves.... why not always react such that it never hurts you.. But does that mean your being cold-hearted.... If so, then, should you allow yourself to get hurt?

And when someone is hurt, is it right to try to change the perspective of that person, to console him and make him feel better about a hurtful situation....

Do we ever know 100% that we have a right to dislike a person because he is wrong... or is it that since he did not behave in a fashion we deemed correct, he is wrong......
If so, it simply does not justify our behaviour towards people...

Well, today I am simply a confused soul who is confused about dealing with extremely close people who are upset about a situation.. and I was trying to change their perspective about the situation. I was trying to convince them that they are not justified in feeling hurt... simply because there are other angles to the same situation... and maybe it was not the intention of the other person to hurt them... well on the other hand maybe it was... who knows? But all my intentions were to soothe the persons close to me....
Which way would have been right... Agree with them and let them believe that the other person was wrong and hating him is ok and that your feeling is justified... or convince them to see the other probable aspect as well... ?

Lessons In Life..........

Well, I thought I would have this blog to keep adding some lessons learnt as I walk through life... Some lessons from my own and some from people in my life..